10 Ways to Stay Positive in a Negative World
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10 Ways to Stay Positive in a Negative World.

1. Start your day with positive expectations

What kind of a day do you want to have? Most of us don’t start out our day saying to ourselves, “I want to have a miserable day today” and yet that is exactly what tends to happen as we begin the day by anticipating the problems that will arise.

Many of us begin our day with negative media stories, which just reinforce our focus on the problems instead of helping us gain insight into solutions. Instead of starting your day identifying any obstacles, re-frame the has opportunities for growth. Expect good things to happen and set yourself up for a more positive self-fulfilling prophecy!

2. Savor the good!

Do you stop and recognize good moments as they happen? Did you notice the sun shining today as you woke up, the smile you received from the coffee shop employee this morning or the good fortune of hitting all green lights on your ride to work?

When we are so busy rushing around we tend to miss the little things that bring joy into our lives. We are so focused on what we need to do next on our to do list that we completely miss good moments. Take some time to look around for the little things and briefly pause to savor them throughout your day.

3. STOP and Breathe

Do you stop and recognize good moments as they happen? Did you notice the sun shining today as you woke up, the smile you received from the coffee shop employee this morning or the good fortune of hitting all green lights on your ride to work?

When we are so busy rushing around we tend to miss the little things that bring joy into our lives. We are so focused on what we need to do next on our to do list that we completely miss good moments. Take some time to look around for the little things and briefly pause to savor them throughout your day.

3. STOP and Breathe
Do you take time to recharge through mindfulness or meditation? Focusing on your breathing allows you to slow down, reconnect to yourself and introduce calm when the world around you seems anything but. Not sure you have time or ready to start a mindfulness practice?

Before going into a stressful situation take a few minutes to try this simple exercise called S.T.O.P. adapted from MBSR 8 week course.

S – Stop and ask yourself what you are feeling, thinking, experiencing in this moment.

T – Take a deep breath and focus for a few moments only on your breathing.

0 – Open and observe what is happening at this moment in the space around you.

P – Proceed forward with a new awareness without expectations.

4. Have Fun

Are you waiting for your vacation to finally enjoy yourself? Perhaps putting off something fun until the weekend? We have this idea that having fun is a luxury most of us can’t afford. I would say it is more of a necessity.

Taking care of your emotional health and well being by adding more fun to your day not only helps you find positivity but also can help you be more productive. Hobbies like painting, riding a bike or reading a good book are all great examples. Make a little time each day to engage in something fun, even if it is just a few minutes!

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5. Stay Connected to Others

How connected are you to positive people in your life? Do you get busy and find that too much time goes by since you have spent quality time with people you love and enjoy? Do you consider social media to be your only connection to friends?

If so, make an effort to reach out and connect with people who are a positive influence in your life. Make plans to meet up for coffee or dinner more often. Sit down for a meal, instead of eating in front of the TV.  Put down your electronic devices when you are with others and spend time really connecting and talking with each other.

 

6. Find Meaning in Your Day

Positive Psychologist, Martin Seligman outlines in his Theory of Well-Being, elements that make a “life worth living” and contribute to positivity and happiness. One of those elements is ‘Meaning’.

This is the concept that you are a part of something that is bigger than you. Where do you find meaning in your life? Is it your job or career? Perhaps volunteer work in your community or being a part of a local organization or parent teacher association. It does not need to be huge or monumental to be meaningful.

7. Celebrate Accomplishments

When we get caught up in negativity we often overlook or forget all that we have to be proud of that we accomplished. Take a few minutes to recognize your accomplishments each day.

Write them down, celebrate and take pride in your achievements. There is no way this trick will not help you to increase positive energy.

8. Express Gratitude

Identify the little things you have to be grateful for. Keep in mind that our brains have a negative bias and we will, therefore, put more weight on the negative.

Spend a few minutes a day identifying and writing down what you are grateful for helps you to recognize and reconnect with the good and the positive we often take for granted.

9. Eat Clean

We all know the benefits of diet and exercise on our physical health, but it is also an important part of your emotional health as well. Our negativity bias becomes stronger and more pronounced when we are tired, malnourished and unhealthy.

Healthy nutrition and exercise can help you not only take care of you body but also keep you emotionally positive and happy.

10. Practice Self-Compassion

According to Psychologist and Author, Kristen Neff, by practicing self-compassion we are able to give ourselves the same care and kindness we would give to a good friend.

We are often much more critical of ourselves than we are of others and our self-talk can become negative and self-defeating. By practicing self-compassion, we can soften the negative self-talk and increase our positive support and emotions.

You can find positivity even in a negative world. It just takes a little effort to make YOU a priority in order to increase positive energy in you and around you!

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